I'm 34M, single dad to three-year-old twin girls, Bella and Lily. Their mom bailed when they were babies—said she wasn't "cut out for diapers and midnight feedings." I begged her to stay, but she never looked back. So I figured it out myself. Remote IT jobs, working during naps, early mornings, late nights. Some days I felt like a zombie, but the girls came first. This year, though? Everything went sideways. Their daycare shut down, my company cut my pay by 20%, my mom got sick and needed surger